Someone once said that 'dead' is a four-letter word. The complete despair that you can feel from being unheard or judged only adds to your grief and causes more isolation.
Some years ago, I experienced a situation that left me feeling fragile, isolated, and unheard. I became seriously ill and attended emergency centres numerous times. As a nurse, one of the first things you are taught is that even though you may not be able to 'see' a patient's pain, what they describe is vital and relevant, and you must listen to the information. I then experienced both gaslighting and narcissistic behaviour, which only made me feel more desperate, because their reactions were all the same. They looked at me as if I were going mad, making it up, exaggerating, and looking for attention.
They had no intention of assisting me and making me feel safe and heard. This is precisely what you may be feeling regarding your grief and loss. People cannot see your internal pain. They are uncomfortable with your feelings and want to 'help' you make it go away. Unfortunately, this is not only unhelpful but also creates more anxiety. I will give you my full attention, offering you my undivided respect. Your feelings are valid and real, and you are encouraged to share them here, without concern about judgment or isolation.
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